Recently a friend and I have been discussing various topics related to Christianity and Church. He comes from a strong Roman Catholic Background. I can identify with him fairly easily, because up until I was 17, I was also Roman Catholic. Now, granted, my family wasn’t hardcore Catholic, but we were faithful Mass attenders, went to CCD, and participated in the sacraments (communion, baptism, penance, etc).
My friend has recently started attending a local Pentecostal church and as he knew I attended an Assemblies of God Church (which is Pentecostal), he had various questions for me about various beliefs we hold, styles of worship, and the like. His questions have been direct and to the point; there’s no beating around the bush with what he wants to know. And for that, I applaud and respect him.
In our discussions, he admitted how he struggles a bit with the differences, as the Catholic Church teaches things that are fairly different (baptism for example). He’s concerned about “going outside the Catholic Church” and its traditions and requirements. I interpret that as referring to the fear of not being “right” in his theology/relationship with God, when the very organized, hierarchical structure of the Catholic CHurch is adamant on what is right and wrong when it comes to practice of faith. When you’re raised in that sort of environment/way of thinking, it’s very easy to understand that fear/concern. I don’t fault him or blame him for that concern in the least. I too want to “guard my doctrine carefully” as we’re instructed by God to, in 1 Timothy 4:16 (NIV)
“16 Watch your life and doctrine closely. Persevere in them, because if you do, you will save both yourself and your hearers.”
In thinking about these concerns and questions, I couldn’t help but remember what Jesus said in Mark 7:1-23 (NIV)
“1 The Pharisees and some of the teachers of the law who had come from Jerusalem gathered around Jesus 2 and saw some of his disciples eating food with hands that were defiled, that is, unwashed. 3 (The Pharisees and all the Jews do not eat unless they give their hands a ceremonial washing, holding to the tradition of the elders. 4 When they come from the marketplace they do not eat unless they wash. And they observe many other traditions, such as the washing of cups, pitchers and kettles.[a])
5 So the Pharisees and teachers of the law asked Jesus, “Why don’t your disciples live according to the tradition of the elders instead of eating their food with defiled hands?”
6 He replied, “Isaiah was right when he prophesied about you hypocrites; as it is written:
“‘These people honor me with their lips,
but their hearts are far from me.
7 They worship me in vain;
their teachings are merely human rules.’[b]
8 You have let go of the commands of God and are holding on to human traditions.”
9 And he continued, “You have a fine way of setting aside the commands of God in order to observe[c] your own traditions! 10 For Moses said, ‘Honor your father and mother,’[d] and, ‘Anyone who curses their father or mother is to be put to death.’[e] 11 But you say that if anyone declares that what might have been used to help their father or mother is Corban (that is, devoted to God)— 12 then you no longer let them do anything for their father or mother. 13 Thus you nullify the word of God by your tradition that you have handed down. And you do many things like that.”
14 Again Jesus called the crowd to him and said, “Listen to me, everyone, and understand this. 15 Nothing outside a person can defile them by going into them. Rather, it is what comes out of a person that defiles them.” [16] [f]
17 After he had left the crowd and entered the house, his disciples asked him about this parable. 18 “Are you so dull?” he asked. “Don’t you see that nothing that enters a person from the outside can defile them? 19 For it doesn’t go into their heart but into their stomach, and then out of the body.” (In saying this, Jesus declared all foods clean.)
20 He went on: “What comes out of a person is what defiles them. 21 For it is from within, out of a person’s heart, that evil thoughts come—sexual immorality, theft, murder, 22adultery, greed, malice, deceit, lewdness, envy, slander, arrogance and folly. 23 All these evils come from inside and defile a person.”
I’m not trying to pick on the Catholic Church, honest. It just happens to be the subject of this particular discussion. All churches have man-made traditions in them. The broader point I want to focus on is that while tradition in and of itself isn’t necessarily a bad or wrong thing, often times traditions and man-made teachings can become wrong, misguided, and dangerous.
When tradition strays from the truth of God’s Word, we must be willing to abandon our traditions. Jesus was pointing out to the religious zealots of His day that their “traditions” which originally may have been well-intended, had actually become dead, empty, meaningless (and actually harmful) human rituals.
God doesn’t want dead ritual from you. He wants a living, vibrant, real relationship. And deep down inside, that’s what we want with God as well. Ritual and dead tradition that is empty will not fulfill the void in your life that can only be filled with an actual relationship with Him. When you enter into that relationship with God by repenting of the sin that separates you from Him, and embracing the death and resurrection of Jesus that paid for your (our) rebellion, you will finally experience true religion. True religion is that relationship with Him that radically transforms who you are. It will cause you to want to obey Him…because of your love for Him. Your obedience isn’t so that you can “earn” His favor. Your obedience comes out of the realization how much you love Him and what He did for you on that cross.
Here are a few passages to read and meditate on that drive home what God is looking for (in that while works are good, obedience comes out of love; not to earn God’s love.)
John 14:15-31 (NIV)
“15 “If you love me, keep my commands. 16 And I will ask the Father, and he will give you another advocate to help you and be with you forever— 17 the Spirit of truth. The world cannot accept him, because it neither sees him nor knows him. But you know him, for he lives with you and will be[c] in you. 18 I will not leave you as orphans; I will come to you. 19Before long, the world will not see me anymore, but you will see me. Because I live, you also will live. 20 On that day you will realize that I am in my Father, and you are in me, and I am in you. 21 Whoever has my commands and keeps them is the one who loves me. The one who loves me will be loved by my Father, and I too will love them and show myself to them.”
22 Then Judas (not Judas Iscariot) said, “But, Lord, why do you intend to show yourself to us and not to the world?”
23 Jesus replied, “Anyone who loves me will obey my teaching. My Father will love them, and we will come to them and make our home with them. 24 Anyone who does not love me will not obey my teaching. These words you hear are not my own; they belong to the Father who sent me.
25 “All this I have spoken while still with you. 26 But the Advocate, the Holy Spirit, whom the Father will send in my name, will teach you all things and will remind you of everything I have said to you. 27 Peace I leave with you; my peace I give you. I do not give to you as the world gives. Do not let your hearts be troubled and do not be afraid.
28 “You heard me say, ‘I am going away and I am coming back to you.’ If you loved me, you would be glad that I am going to the Father, for the Father is greater than I. 29 I have told you now before it happens, so that when it does happen you will believe. 30 I will not say much more to you, for the prince of this world is coming. He has no hold over me, 31 but he comes so that the world may learn that I love the Father and do exactly what my Father has commanded me.”
Ephesians 2:1-10 (NIV)
“1 As for you, you were dead in your transgressions and sins, 2 in which you used to live when you followed the ways of this world and of the ruler of the kingdom of the air, the spirit who is now at work in those who are disobedient. 3 All of us also lived among them at one time, gratifying the cravings of our flesh[a] and following its desires and thoughts. Like the rest, we were by nature deserving of wrath. 4 But because of his great love for us, God, who is rich in mercy, 5 made us alive with Christ even when we were dead in transgressions—it is by grace you have been saved. 6 And God raised us up with Christ and seated us with him in the heavenly realms in Christ Jesus, 7 in order that in the coming ages he might show the incomparable riches of his grace, expressed in his kindness to us in Christ Jesus. 8For it is by grace you have been saved, through faith—and this is not from yourselves, it is the gift of God— 9 not by works, so that no one can boast. 10 For we are God’s handiwork, created in Christ Jesus to do good works, which God prepared in advance for us to do.”
1 John 4:16-19 (NIV)
“16 And so we know and rely on the love God has for us.
God is love. Whoever lives in love lives in God, and God in them. 17 This is how love is made complete among us so that we will have confidence on the day of judgment: In this world we are like Jesus. 18 There is no fear in love. But perfect love drives out fear, because fear has to do with punishment. The one who fears is not made perfect in love.
19 We love because he first loved us.”
And finally, James 1:1-27 (NIV)
“19 My dear brothers and sisters, take note of this: Everyone should be quick to listen, slow to speak and slow to become angry, 20 because human anger does not produce the righteousness that God desires. 21 Therefore, get rid of all moral filth and the evil that is so prevalent and humbly accept the word planted in you, which can save you.
22 Do not merely listen to the word, and so deceive yourselves. Do what it says. 23 Anyone who listens to the word but does not do what it says is like someone who looks at his face in a mirror 24 and, after looking at himself, goes away and immediately forgets what he looks like. 25 But whoever looks intently into the perfect law that gives freedom, and continues in it—not forgetting what they have heard, but doing it—they will be blessed in what they do.
26 Those who consider themselves religious and yet do not keep a tight rein on their tongues deceive themselves, and their religion is worthless. 27 Religion that God our Father accepts as pure and faultless is this: to look after orphans and widows in their distress and to keep oneself from being polluted by the world.”
Don’t allow religious tradition to replace what we ultimately need: real relationship. Am I saying that all tradition is bad? By no means! Tradition and obedience to the commands of God’s Word (not always equal to the tradition of the church) that is kept in perspective of the truth of God’s Word is fine, as long as you don’t start relying on that tradition and ritual to replace your every day relationship with Him. Your obedience comes out of love and relationship TO him.
If you’ve never actually entered into a real, living, vibrant relationship with Jesus, I’d be honored to talk with you about that, and pray with you to make Him Lord of your life. It’s only by the blood of Jesus shed on the cross that you can enter into relationship with Him. It’s not your attendance to church. It’s not observing ritual or tradition. It’s Jesus, and His love for you alone that you acknowledge and submit to, that will save you. ”For it is by grace you have been saved, through faith—and this is not from yourselves, it is the gift of God— 9 not by works, so that no one can boast.”
Please let me know if I can pray with you to enter into this awesome, incredible relationship.